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大度读人 eid4ever Other

2007/01/09 20:14
大度读人

冯骥才

一个人就是一本书。

读人，比读其他文字写就的书更难。我认认真真地读，读了大半辈子，至今还没有读懂这本“人之书”。

有的人，在阳光明媚的日子里愿意把伞借给你．而下雨的时候，他却打伞悄悄地先走了。
——你读他时，千万别埋怨他。因为他自己不愿意被雨淋着(况且是人家的伞)，也不愿意分担别人的困难，你能说什么呢?还是自己常备一把伞吧。

有的人，在你有权有势的时候，围着你团团转，而你离职了，或无权无势了，他却躲得远远的。
——你读他时，千万要理解他。因为他过去为了某种需要而赞美你，现在没有那种动力了，也就没有必要再为你吟唱什么赞美诗了。在此，你需要静下心来，先反思一下自己过去是否太轻信别人了呢?

有的人，在面对你倾诉深情的时候，语言的表述像流淌着的一条清亮、甜美的大河，而在河床的底下，却潜藏着一股污浊的暗流。
——你读他时，千万别憎恨他。固为凡是以虚伪的假面来欺骗别人的人，人前人后活得也挺难的，弄不好还会被同类的虚伪所惩罚，你应该体谅他的这种人生方式，等待他的人性的回归和自省吧。

有的人，在你辛勤播种的时候，他袖手旁观，不肯洒一滴汗水，而当你收获的时候，他却毫无愧色地以各种理由来分享你的果实。 ——你读他时，千万别反感他。固为有人肯分享你丰收的喜悦，不管他怀着什么样的心态，都应该持欢迎的态度。你做出一点牺牲，却成全了一个人的业绩欲，慢慢地，会让他学会一些自尊和自爱。

有的人，注重外表的修饰，且穿着显示出一种华贵，而内心深处却充满了空虚，充满了无知和愚昧。那种文化的形态，常常不自觉地流露在他的言语行动中。
——你读他时，千万别鄙视他。因为他不懂得服装是裁缝制作的，仅仅是货币的标志，而人的知识、品德和气质，却是一个人真正的人生价值。对于庸俗的人，你可以反现对照一下自己的行为。

读别人，其实也是在读自己。读真、读善、读美的同时，也读道貌岸然背后的伪善，也读美丽背后的丑恶，也读微笑背后的狡诈……

读人，最重要的是读懂怎样为人。

读人，是为了要做一个真正的人。

因此，读人时，要学会宽容，要学会大度，由此才能读到一些有益于自已的东西，才能读出高尚，才能读出欢乐，才能读出幸福。

尽管我还没有读完这本“人之书”，但我全一直努力从各方面去阅读。
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  1. luyanchi
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    本来人就是一个很复杂的动物，何必又要读懂呢
    就那样顺其自然，不是很好嘛
    又何必那么较劲.......
    做自己
    永远不要想别人是怎样的，让别人去猜你
    这样会显得你很特别，其实你已经很特别了.......
    真善美，永远是最美好的
    假恶丑，也不是没有它一定的道理
    只是做得刚刚好,人这种东西是要用一辈子去感受的
    也许有的人一辈子都不会理解其中的含义

    所以呢，就这样做自己，也许再过些年
    你就会觉得，这些没什么了
    其实真的什么也没什么，只是
    有的时候自己在乎了不该在乎的东西
    画画的人长寿，因为他们会在画里面去释放自己的不满
    画，画完了，自己也释放的过了
    那时候也就解脱了
    不满的东西也随之而去，多好
    想开了，就好了
    还是那句话，做自己！

    我也不知道我干嘛写这些东西给你，既然写了
    随便看看吧  修改/删除

    2007/02/04 03:37

  2. 祝山山快乐
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    感慨之后要做的 和怎么做是关键 老师只是启引导作用  修改/删除

    2007/05/31 00:20

    • mm

      说的有道理.  修改/删除

      2008/03/20 09:29

 
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